MeetingTheBar: Self Portraits – As I See It.

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Ageing

Stuck

Time lapse.

Brain in denial

Body protesting

Aches and pains

Everyday a new spot.

Face facts

‘You ain’t as young as you used to be’.

 

Once I could run for miles

Climb every neighbourhood tree

Build forts and cubby houses

Play games, sports, competitive.

I could compete with other lovers

Hold my own as they say.

 

Now the ravages of time

Experience, trauma,

Marriage, failures

Successes, more than the former.

Children grown and prosperous.

My life my own.

 

Enigmatic

Creative

Resourceful

Loyal

Patient

Life is laughter

Laughter is joy

It’s who I am.

 

I was once told I sat somewhere on the autism spectrum

Are you the one standing beside me?

 

Written for: http://dversepoets.com/2014/04/17/meetingthebar-self-portraits/

The portrait used above comes from a collection done last year. Here is a link to see the whole thing:

50 Shades of Grogan

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33 Responses to MeetingTheBar: Self Portraits – As I See It.

  1. JackieP's avatar JackieP says:

    Getting older is not for sissy’s that’s for sure. Lol Good d’verse Michael about something we all lament….

  2. Very, very well written, dear friend!
    The soul and passion from the within are really felt here.
    God bless 🙂
    -Amanda

  3. Kathy Reed's avatar kkkkaty1 says:

    I’m glad you have found laughter..it being the best medicine…almost sounds like a singles’ listing at first until I read further…Nice.

  4. brian miller's avatar brian miller says:

    life is joy…when we let it be…
    and that last stanza has some pretty good qualities in there…
    life teaches us much, we have our bumps and bruises
    from that learning, but…smiles…

  5. Bound Tightly Open's avatar dychedesigns says:

    Sounds like a life lived . . . and life and laughter, it doesn’t get much better than that.

  6. kamana's avatar kamana says:

    if laughter is present, then age stays away

  7. claudia's avatar claudia says:

    oh it’s good if we keep our positive spirit despite the bumps and bruises that life surely gives us – and focus on the joy and good things… cool self portrait…and even a double one with the sketch which is way cool as well… did you do it yourself?

  8. I seem to go in circles, sometimes I am satisfied that I am this age, who I am, then I turn and don’t. I think I’m normal…

  9. Sumana Roy's avatar Sumana Roy says:

    i call this ageing gracefully with wisdom….great inspiring lines..

  10. This is so easy to relate to. One of the gifts of aging, I’m finding, is the freedom to just be who we are. No more assortment of personas to adapt to each occasion. Did you do that great sketch?

  11. MarinaSofia's avatar MarinaSofia says:

    We’re all somewhere on the autism spectrum, I suspect… Who is to define normal, anyway? I like the way you start with the frailty of the body but then end on the strength of mind which obviously characterises you.

    • Thank you so much Marina. It is true about the autism reference, my ex wife suspects I am, my kids find it a great joke and will say ‘dad you have an excuse for being you’ but they love me anyhow….lol…..the comment about us all fitting along the spectrum came from a good friend and psychologist.

  12. RoSy's avatar RoSy says:

    Oh – Hi Michael – It’s me RoSy – standing next to you.
    Not sure how I ended up here – but – nice to see you. 😉

  13. CC Champagne's avatar CC Champagne says:

    Such insights, so beautifully put! Bravo!

  14. Bryan Ens's avatar Bryan Ens says:

    A lovely glumps of aging with joy!

  15. silentkim's avatar silentkim says:

    The real growing pains seem to be after the living is done.

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